Is making the impossible possible?

I am sure you would say no.

You well know that achieving impossible meant doing the unimaginable.

And you feel that you must be a super human being to try out the unimaginable.

Impossible things can happen only in story books and movies, and not in real life. This is the attitude almost everyone has.

Why do most of you have this mindset?

You always want to play it safe in your life. So, you do not want to take any risks.

This is the reason you never come out of your comfort zone. You feel apprehensive to try anything different because you are very unsure about the end result.

And the magnitude of the hardwork involved in making the impossible possible makes you withdraw from even trying to see whether it will work for you.

You are also alarmed by the tiniest of problems you face in your life. A molecule of problem is enough to make you feel that your life has ended.

This is a very wrong attitude.

Have you watched “I shouldn’t be alive,” my favorite program in Discovery channel?

It is a revelation to those who easily buckle under the pressures of life. It is incredible to watch the near fatally injured people inch their way to safety, making the impossible possible.

I had always wondered what made these people so courageous. Their injury is not ordinary. Their ordeal is not simple.

The days they spend in excruciating pain, loneliness and near death could have broken the spirit of most of us.

But these people hang on with hope. They live through their nightmare with incredible guts. And finally, they somehow wriggle out of their near impossible situation to come out alive to narrate their story.

What made these courageous people overcome their harrowing plight?

It is the trust they had in themselves. It is their ability in making impossible possible.

But most of us never have their guts, do we?

“How can I be successful in life when I face rebuffs and rejections in all spheres of my life?” most of you feel so when you face a procession of problems in your life.

Of course, consistent failures make you feel depressed and dejected. There are times you feel that your life is worthless and aimless.

You look at successful people with envy. “They are born lucky,” inwardly you curse your ill-luck for being a non-entity.

Dear friend!

Luck did not make successful people achieve incredible success.

It is their hard work, positivity, intelligence and sustained trust in themselves that made them rise above the ordinary.

You too can be successful if only you try. Rebuffs does not mean that you are unworthy and worthless.

It just means that a better opportunity awaits you. Failures does not mean it will continue throughout your life.

When you keep trying for your success, making impossible possible becomes a reality.

So move ahead!

And think ahead!

Work hard to make your dream a reality.

Do not let go your dream even when your back is the wall. It is so easy to let go than to cling on to your dreams when you face defeats.

This mentality of surrendering to your defeat is a death knell in your endeavor of making the  impossible possible.

So, do not bow your knees to failure.

Instead, develop the never- say- die mindset. You drastically need it for your success.

Making the impossible possible is not a pipe dream – Here are simple tricks

1. Be positive

Be tuned to positive thoughts. Unless you are positive, you can never succeed.

Most of you are ever doubtful about the end result even before venturing into any endeavor.

You feel you will not succeed.

You are terrified you are making fatal mistakes.

You feel you are incapable to cope up with the magnitude of work involved in making you successful.

Can you see how you start your work with doubts loaded in your mind?

Even an iota of doubt about your success makes you step back from your actions towards achieving your aim.

This is bad for your success. So, never do that.

2. Have clear cut thoughts

Most of you want to be successful, but do not know how. You try many things and fail abjectly. This is a wrong way to achieve success.

Have a definite idea of what you want to be. This is the first step in making impossible possible.

You should be proficient in the field you select as a mode for your success.

I have a flair for writing. So, I concentrate to achieve my success by being a writer. I have never wavered from my target. I have two blogs and I am writing eBooks. So, I easily follow my dreams of victory as I have a well etched plan for my success in my mind.

I cannot plan to be otherwise because I lack proficiency in other fields.

So, find out your talent and focus your attention on it.

3. Execute your plan

Have a plan about what you should do.

Shall we see an example?

You might want to be a successful businessman. You should first select the type of business you want to do.

Learn the nuances of your business. Select the place where your business will prove successful.

Learn about your competitors. Develop your knowledge about your business. Now, put your sweat and toil into your business.

This meticulous planning leads the way to your inevitable success.

4. Have patience to achieve success

Success cannot be had easily. You have to sweat for it. You have to wait for years before you achieve your dream of incredible success.

There is no easy success for anyone. When success is easily had, it also disappears easily because you do not know the value of it.

Success is an inch by inch journey. When you let go midway, you will be losing your success which might be just a few feet away.

So, patience is another trick to success.

5. Think big

Most of you live your life mechanically with no great aim. You go to work and return home tired. The next day you go to work and return home tired.

This is your daily routine. Weekends are spent in catching up with lost sleep, watching movies, and going out with your family.

You wait for your promotion and a raise in your salary. You feel you have achieved something great when you get it. This is the scenario of your entire life.

Can you see how your life has become rather static and stagnant, with nothing to feel excited about?

Come out of your comfort zone to think big about your life. You will definitely face initial teething troubles. But the resultant victory is well worth your difficulties.

6. Visualize and live your goal

Visualizing your dream is a simple trick to achieve your goal.

What exactly is visualizing your dream?

It is the enactment of your triumph even before you achieve it.

Are you confused?

How does a film director direct his movies?

He visualizes the movie scene by scene even before he starts directing it. He literally lives the characters of the movie in his mind. This makes it easy for him to get into the mood of the movie to finally give a blockbuster.

Likewise, you too should visualize your success even before you achieve it. When you do that, you will get into the right groove to achieve success easily.

7. Appreciate your efforts.

Are you waiting for a big success to make you happy?

If you do so, you must wait for a long time. You easily give up when initially you are able to achieve only small success. You never know that big success always starts small.

I pat myself when I write a good article. I give myself a treat as if I have achieved something great.

Do you know this small habit has made my writing more punchy and emphatic?

Success cannot be had very easily. You have to sweat for it. You must have perseverance and patience to wait for success to alight on you.

8. Do not work aimlessly with no time limit.

When you do not have a time limit, your work would extent infinitely.

Lack of time limit makes you feel that you have all the time in the world to go about your work. The reality is that everyone has only a limited time.

Your success would take an eternity if you never set yourself time limit to achieve your target. Your hard work should be continuous and sustained. Never lose your momentum until you reach your goal.

9. Do not be put off by defeats and failures.

Failures are actually precious lessons for you to do better. If success was so easy, it would not be valuable and worthwhile.

It is the toil and sweat that goes in making the impossible possible which makes it all the more sweeter.

You will face tons of failures and defeats in your endeavor. If you lose heart, you will just let go. All the efforts you had so far put in becomes a sheer waste.

So, the trick is to keep trying and trying until you hit the jackpot.

10. Do not aim to be successful in an easy way.

Success is never easy. It is the struggle and hardships that make your success all the more sweet and wonderful.

So, improvise your knowledge about your field.

Do not think you know everything. Be humble to learn lessons from the other people. Yet another way to success.

CONCLUSION.

Can you see that hard work always pays?

Do not demean yourself as a non-entity incapable of being successful. Dig deep inside you.

You would be surprised to see that you have all the ingredients needed in making the impossible possible.