Do you know only your confidence leads to success?

You want success, fame, happiness, and great affluence to be part and parcel of your life.  It is because these are the key ingredients which makes you feel that your life is worthwhile.

Most of you have great dreams about your life, don’t you?

But does your dreams come true?

How many of you have achieved even a fifty percent of your dreams?

I am sure only a handful. Your vision of success and a great future almost always remain a dream.

Why is it so?

Dreaming about success is possible for every one of you.

Why?

Because dreaming about success just needs a crazy flight of imagination from you. You can dream of success\affluence\fame\recognition happening to you in your mind.

It is very easy, as it does not need any work from you. You can just laze around building dreams about your success.

It is very  human to dream about a posh and successful life. 

But sadly,  you feel dreaming of your success alone is a prelude to your fame.

But you soon find it otherwise.

You gradually understand that to make a reality of your dreams, you need incredible grit, hard work, patience, and confidence. This is where you are completely at loss. You want everything you dream about to be handed over to you in a platter.

But success never happens like that!

The path to success is always thorny, difficult and full of rebuffs and browbeating.

Yes!

You must struggle for an eternity for achieving even the tiniest of success. 

This is the reason most of you let go your trying for success. You are alarmed by the consistent failures you face in your life. 

You feel ashamed of the rejections you experience in your life.

Consistent rebuffs and rejections hits you very hard and your confidence level touches its rock bottom.

And you are daunted by the hard work involved to make you successful.

So, you meekly settle down to a mediocre life.

Can you see why your dreams never come true?

• It is because of your meek attitude.
• You easily give up.
• You buckle under the pressures and turmoil you often face in your life.
• You cower with fear at a time when you must be fighting with guts.

Do you know an old proverb which is valid even today?

It will remain valid until the world exists!

“When the going gets tough, the tough gets going.”

This proverb sums up the true spirit of life.

Only a confident person can fight against all odds even when his back is on the wall.

Confidence leads to success because it makes you leap over your hurdles.

Yes!

Confidence makes you go towards your problems and not away from it.

How do you do it?

By your sheer confidence.

It is a hardcore fact that the key ingredient for your success is confidence.

Confidence makes you thrust aside the traumatic trials you undergo in your life.

It gears you up to meet the persistent challenges life throws in your way.

It is easier said than done isn’t it?

Are you wondering about the ways to achieve your success.

Here are 7 simple tricks to make confidence your second nature.

1. Be positive

When you are positive, you work with confidence.

Positivity is a vibration. Your life drastically needs it.

Your positive energy makes you see the end result of your endeavor towards success. 

You realize that your struggle for success comes with a package of failures and defeats.

So, even when you fail a multiple times, you bounce back with a vengeance. 

Can you see that positivity is crucial for your success?

2. Confidence trains your mind 

Do you know your mind plays a vital part in making you confident?

How is it so?

Your thoughts and actions are interlinked.

Your mind does what your thoughts tell you to do. When you deem yourself to be a failure, you are naturally a failure.

But when you are confident, you feed your mind with positive thoughts. These positive thoughts makes your actions result oriented and productive. You gradually, but surely inch towards making your dream possible.

Is the mindset of being confident that difficult to bring into practice?

Of course not!

It is a habit you should practice if you want to succeed in life.

Habits are easily cultivated when you put your heart and soul into it.

3. Confidence makes you brave

This world is not for the cowards. When you are timid and meek, you will be tossed by everyone worth his name.

And the world is full of people who are ready to bulldoze you into submission. 

If you lack confidence, you will never be able to handle people who use you for their advantage. 

But when you are confident, you clench your fist in aggressive assertiveness which makes people out to use you take a step back. 

Can you see how confidence leads to success?

4. You have pride

Unless you are proud about yourself, you can never be confident. 

Being proud does not mean you think that you are above others. Your pride just means your confidence makes you feel that you are equal to others. 

Only confidence instills a sense of pride in you. You drastically need it for your success. 

5. You have incredible people’s skill

When you are confident you get along with people easily, even if they are strangers.

People’s skill is a secret ingredient towards your incredible success. 

You never feel apprehensive and reserved when you talk with people you are not acquainted with.

You are friendly and your total outlook oozes with confidence and assertiveness. People like you for this.

6. You have the never-say-die-attitude

Your confidence makes you fight until the end. Your failures does not demotivate you.

Though you feel low, you never let go your trying. 

You trying never stops until you achieve what you dreamed of.

Your never-say-die-attitude makes you hang on even when your back is to the wall. 

And such confidence leads to success. 

7. You are always smiling 

Have you seen some people?

It is as though they have forgotten to smile. They look glum and despondent. Their whole façade makes everyone deviate from them.

Why do they behave in such an energy sucking manner?

It is because such people lack confidence. 

Have you seen yet another group of people?

They look straight into your eyes. They smile a lot. Their walk is sprightly and agile. Their voice is firm and friendly. They are admired and respected by everyone. 

This is what confidence does to you. It builds a positive image of you.

Why do some people make you drawn towards them?

It is because of their confident behavior. Their smile, their friendliness, their assertiveness draws you towards such confident people.

8. Confidence makes you productive 

When you have fear, you never act but dither. Dithering is a great obstacle to your success.

But when you are confident, you are productive. You are always on the lookout for new openings for your success.

When opportunities knock your door, you instantly grab it. 

You immediately go about making your opportunities build your success. 

So, confidence leads to success, isn’t it?

9. You know how to say no

When you lack confidence, you never know how to say No. 

So, you are overburdened with work which in reality is not yours.

But when you are confident, you acquire the beautiful art of saying no.

You never do other people’s work needlessly. 

When you say no, your time is your own. And you utilize to the full to do the work needed for your success.

10. You have assertive body language

When you lack confidence, your body language is sickly and gloomy.

You lack the guts to look people directly into their eyes. 

But when you are confident, you look directly into the eyes of the people you are  interacting with. 

Your walk is spritely and agile.

You stand erect and firm.

You are always well groomed. 

Your total appearance is assertiveness personified because of your confident attitude. 

Conclusion

“Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.” – Helen Keller  

Can you finally understand why confidence leads to success?

Your dreams and imaginations about success becomes a reality only when never let go your confidence.

 Confidence is a lethal weapon which makes your sucess a reality.

Make confidence your second nature to succeed in life.